There’s no such thing as a ‘normal’ family, say 73% in North East England

…as National Adoption Week highlights adoption journeys of all kinds:

• A new survey by You Can Adopt reveals that four in 10 (43%) have a ‘chosen family’ and 51% come from a ‘non-traditional’ family structure.
• The survey explored attitudes to family diversity, as National Adoption Week aims to highlight that ‘the journey to a family is not always a traditional one’.
• This comes as new adoption data shows there has been a 22% increase in the number of children with a plan for adoption not yet matched with an adoptive family, alongside a fall in the number of adopters coming forward.
• The campaign will show adopters that they are not alone by highlighting the ‘village’ that makes every journey unique – from social workers and foster carers to birth families and grandparents.
• To mark National Adoption Week, a new film features adoptive families onboard a train, reflecting on their journeys and the people who’ve been there along the way.
• As part of the theme ‘The Journey’, rail companies including Southeastern Railways, Hull Trains and Avanti are backing National Adoption Week.
• To find out more about adoption or starting your own adoption journey, visit youcanadopt.co.uk/naw.

There’s no such thing as a ‘normal’ family, according to 73% of people in North East England – this comes as National Adoption Week (21-27 October) has launched today to increase understanding of modern adoption and show that ‘the journey to a family is not always a traditional one’.

The survey by You Can Adopt has also revealed that the vast majority of the public (91%) feel it’s important to teach children that families come in all shapes and sizes, and that this promotes acceptance of children from non-traditional family units (51%). However, (55%) of the public surveyed were not taught this themselves when growing up.

The survey explored changing attitudes to family life, as National Adoption Week highlights the diversity of adoption journeys today, and the significant people who are there to navigate the path.

It was also revealed that 43% say they have a ‘chosen family’, while only a third (38%) felt that ‘blood’ was an important factor in defining a family. The term ‘chosen family’ recognises relationships and support networks that exist in parallel to the immediate family and indicates changing perceptions over what defines a modern family unit. Meanwhile, 51% of the public consider themselves to belong to a non-traditional family – such as blended, extended, adoptive, or single parent.

Sarah Johal MBE, National Adoption Strategic Lead from Adoption England, said:
“With the number of children needing adoption increasing and a decline in those coming forward, it’s crucial during National Adoption Week to raise the profile of modern adoption. We hope to show that adoptive families are not alone, they have a community of support around them – from social workers and foster carers to others who have walked the same path. Some are there for the whole journey, others just for one small part, and of course birth families remain an important part of a child’s identity throughout their life. But each of these people plays an important part in the lifelong nature of the adoption journey that makes each family’s experience unique.”

To mark the theme of ‘The Journey’ a new short film, set onboard a train, follows the stories of three adoptive families on their travels, reflecting on the ups, downs and detours of their lifelong journey.

Rachel, who features in the film alongside her two year old adopted daughter Winnie, father Daniel and social worker Becky, said: “You have an idea in your head of what family looks like, and for us it’s been different, but even more wonderful in different ways. For me, it’s really important that Winnie has a sense of herself and her identity – that she understands that not only do all families look different, but she has more than one family, and that’s OK.”

This comes as latest data shows there has been a 22% increase in the number of children with a plan for adoption not yet matched with an adoptive family in England in 2023-4, compared to the previous year, meaning there are 780 more children not yet placed with a family, than there are approved adopters waiting to be matched with a child. With fewer potential adopters coming forward – believed to largely be a result of the cost-of-living crisis – this means that nearly half (47%) of all children face delays of over 18 months to be placed with an adoptive family.

In support of the campaign, train companies across the country including Southeastern Railway, Hull Trains and Avanti are encouraging more people to start their own adoption journey. From offering free tickets for adoptive families, to changing digital signage at train stations, rail companies are rallying behind the cause in support of everybody who is part of an adoptive family or considering embarking on their own adoption journey.

Paula Gibbons, Head of Service for Adopt Coast to Coast said: “We are happy to support National Adoption Week again this year, campaigns like this one which share real stories greatly help our efforts in recruiting prospective adopters.

“By highlighting that adoption isn’t an isolated journey and that support is available from a range of people including our social workers, wider family members and across the community, we hope this encourages people to take the first step.

“So many applicants would not only make great parents, but they would also be able to provide a secure and loving home for our children. We know it isn’t always easy, but with the right support along the way, it can be so rewarding for everyone involved.

“We would encourage anyone thinking about adoption to contact us to find out more – taking that first step is often the hardest part.”

To find out more about adoption or starting your adoption journey, visit www.youcanadopt.co.uk/naw